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Home is the place where, when you have to go there, they have to take you in.
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About this quote

Meaning

Frost is capturing one of the defining qualities of home: the sense of unconditional belonging. Most places in the world are conditional. You are welcome as a guest, a customer, a colleague, as long as you fulfill a role. Home, as Frost frames it, is different. It is the one place where your claim to shelter does not depend on merit or invitation. The people there must receive you simply because you are theirs and they are yours.

Context

These lines are spoken by a character in the dramatic narrative poem The Death of the Hired Man, published in 1914 in Frost's second collection. The poem unfolds as a conversation between a husband and wife who are debating what to do about an old farmhand who has returned to them, sick and near death, having nowhere else to go. The husband's definition of home, quoted here, is offered as a somewhat wry or even grudging acknowledgment, while his wife counters with a gentler vision. The tension between the two definitions gives the poem its emotional depth.

About the author

Robert Frost was an American poet born in 1874 and died in 1963. He is one of the most beloved figures in American literary history, known for poems that use the landscapes and rural life of New England to explore universal human themes. He received the Pulitzer Prize for Poetry four times, a record, and was invited to read at the inauguration of President John F. Kennedy in 1961. Beneath his plain-spoken style lies a body of work rich with ambiguity, irony, and philosophical weight.

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