“The great man is he who does not lose his child's heart.”
Mencius · Mencius, Book IV B, c. 4th century BCE
This statement lays out a chain of understanding: rigorous self-examination leads to knowledge of one's own nature, and that self-knowledge in turn opens the way to understanding Heaven, which in Mencius's philosophy means something like the moral order underlying all existence. The idea is that the deepest truths about the universe are not found by looking outward alone, but by turning inward with genuine effort and honesty.
The Book VII A of the Mencius is particularly concerned with the relationship between the individual mind, human nature, and the larger moral cosmos. Mencius held that human nature is fundamentally good and that Heaven, in a philosophical rather than simply religious sense, expresses itself through that nature. By knowing yourself fully, you are in contact with something larger than yourself. This places serious intellectual and moral work at the center of a life well lived.
Mencius, known in Chinese as Mengzi, lived during the fourth and third centuries BCE and is regarded as the most important Confucian thinker after Confucius himself. He traveled among the states of his era, advising rulers and debating other philosophers. His collected conversations and arguments were compiled into a text that bears his name and became one of the foundational works of Chinese classical thought.
“The great man is he who does not lose his child's heart.”
Mencius · Mencius, Book IV B, c. 4th century BCE
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