“The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.”
William James
This line reframes the idea of distance in a striking way. Rather than measuring space in miles or geography, it measures it in time, specifically in all the moments that separate a person from a place they once knew or a life they once lived. The suggestion is that returning somewhere physically is easy compared to closing the emotional and temporal gulf that memory creates. What makes a place feel far away is not where it is but how long ago it belonged to you.
The line appears in Tennessee Williams's play first staged in 1944. The Glass Menagerie is a memory play, narrated by a character looking back on his family life from a distance of years. The entire work is concerned with the gap between the present and the past, between reality and illusion, and between the lives people lead and the lives they wish they had lived. The observation about time and distance fits perfectly within that framework, giving a poetic name to the sense of irretrievable loss that runs through the whole piece.
Tennessee Williams was an American playwright whose work stood at the center of twentieth-century American drama. He grew up in the South and drew heavily on his own experiences and family relationships in his writing. Beyond The Glass Menagerie, he wrote several other plays that became landmarks of the American stage. He received major honors during his lifetime and remains one of the most studied and performed playwrights in the English-speaking world.
“The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.”
William James
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