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The purpose of our lives is to be happy.
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Meaning

The Dalai Lama is not stating that happiness is the only thing we do or should do, but that it is the underlying point of everything we do. All the goals people chase, such as security, connection, achievement, and meaning, are ultimately in service of a deeper wish to feel that life is good and worth living. By naming happiness as the purpose rather than as a byproduct, he is encouraging people to ask directly whether their choices are actually moving them toward it.

Context

This idea comes from a tradition that has thought carefully about happiness for a very long time. Tibetan Buddhist philosophy distinguishes between fleeting pleasurable feelings and a deeper, more stable sense of well-being that comes from compassion, ethical living, and mental clarity. When the Dalai Lama speaks of being happy, he is typically pointing toward that deeper kind of contentment rather than momentary pleasure. The statement also echoes Aristotle's concept of eudaimonia, showing that this insight appears across very different philosophical traditions.

About the author

The Dalai Lama is the traditional spiritual leader of Tibetan Buddhism. The current holder of the title, Tenzin Gyatso, is the fourteenth Dalai Lama, born in 1935 in Tibet. He has lived in exile in India since 1959 following China's takeover of Tibet. He is widely known for his teachings on compassion, mindfulness, and the nature of happiness, and has written and spoken extensively on these themes for a global audience. He received the Nobel Peace Prize in 1989.

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