“We accept the love we think we deserve.”
Bill (speaking to Charlie) · The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Stephen Chbosky, 1999
Charlie uses this line to describe a fleeting but overwhelming sense of boundlessness, a feeling that time has paused and that everything is possible. The word infinite here does not refer to a measurement but to an emotional state: the rare sensation of being so fully present and so connected to others that ordinary limits seem to dissolve. It is a description of peak joy, the kind that is felt most sharply by young people in the company of friends who truly understand them.
This line comes near the end of a key scene in Stephen Chbosky's 1999 novel, in which Charlie is riding in a pickup truck with his new friends, wind in his hair and music playing. The moment is deliberately simple in its details but enormous in its emotional weight. Chbosky uses Charlie's narration throughout the book to show how profound ordinary experiences can feel when you are young, isolated, and suddenly surrounded by people who see you. The scene has become one of the most quoted passages in contemporary young adult fiction.
Stephen Chbosky is an American author and filmmaker best known for writing this novel, which was published in 1999. The book is written as a series of letters from a teenager named Charlie to an unnamed recipient, and it draws on themes of mental health, identity, and the intensity of adolescent friendship. Chbosky has spoken about his desire to write a book that made readers feel less alone, and this particular line has clearly achieved that goal for a great many people.
“We accept the love we think we deserve.”
Bill (speaking to Charlie) · The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Stephen Chbosky, 1999
“It's Wednesday. I'm not dressed up for Halloween. This is how I always look.”
Wednesday Addams · The Addams Family (various adaptations)
“I hate Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays, and half of Fridays.”
Anonymous
“I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship.”
Louisa May Alcott · Little Women, 1868
“Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise.”
Victor Hugo · Les Misérables, 1862
“The secret of getting ahead is getting started.”
Mark Twain
“I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying.”
Oscar Wilde · The Remarkable Rocket, 1888
“Well-behaved women seldom make history.”
Laurel Thatcher Ulrich · "Vertuous Women Found," American Quarterly, 1976
“If you're going through hell, keep going.”
Winston Churchill
“Nothing is worth more than this day.”
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
“Believe you can and you're halfway there.”
Theodore Roosevelt
“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.”
Henry David Thoreau · Walden, 1854